you are not my friend

i wrote this last week on FB, after an illuminating episode with a certain friend.


when you think what you say is more important, you are not my friend,
when you are consumed with narrow-minded stereotyping, you are not my friend,
when you think there is always a hidden agenda behind a good gesture, you are not my friend,
and what's more, when i could not be myself around you, you are not my friend.

hiatus

*tap tap tap*

testing! testing!

is this thing on?

*adjust mic*

yuhuuuuu! anyone here? i'm back.

:)

Am I Wearing Pants?

i was browsing through Huffington Post online when i found this. 

to me, this is very funny since i am not that fond of the leggings culture.

why, you may ask.

well, firstly, i don't have the legs for it. i maybe hourglass but my curvy legs, thighs and butts are not meant to wear tights or leggings. 

(that is very SELFISH of me, really... but hear me out on my second and third reasoning *wink* )

secondly, leggings seem under-dressed. it's a good casual look but it seems dated when all your blouses/tops/tunics/kaftans/whatnots are worn with this piece of teensy garment.

it's also mortifying when you see women wearing these without the necessary undergarments or the material is so thin that you are actually showing EVERYTHING. what even worse is when there are incidences of a showy 'camel toe'. if you don't know what a camel toe is, it's that front part of your lower body which should remain under wraps.

thirdly, women wearing hijabs should not even don any tights or leggings. because it defeats the purpose. that's all i have to say.

well, enough ramblings for now, enjoy the process flow. :)

i got this nifty flowchart from here

PS:  sorry, i don't know how to adjust the chart for it to fit the viewing page.